People who are abused by narcissists are generally really nice people.

We believe in the good of humanity and we are geared to recognize the kindness of ourselves within others.

This allows us to discount bad behavior and offset it in our own mind with good behavior. It allows us to retain our wholesome model of the world.

So when the once nice narcissist engages in atrocious behavior we are sent into a tailspin of confusion. 😕

And when they go back and forth between nice and atrocious we are beyond confused and find ourselves rendered disempowered, helpless and dependent.

As most of you know, I fell deeply into this trap and barely got out.

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