Jack was winning championships—he had it all—until he lost it all. He felt hopeless. His gymnastics career? Over. Bedridden, he started confronting his people-pleasing tendencies, and left his career and his home to reinvent himself in LA. Competition in LA is fierce. Few make it. Today, Jack's a successful actor, model, and content creator with millions of followers. He talks about the inner work required to be confident and authentic to reinvent successfully in a city filled with high achievers. 🐲

Key lessons on reinvention:

1. The worst moment in your life can be your best: Use hard times to build momentum for change. Adversity can lead to new paths and self-discovery.

2. Experimentations lead to success: If you never try, you will never know what works for you. The key for high-performers lies in setting realistic expectations, and embracing self-love amid imperfection.

3. Confidence despite fear of failure: People-pleasing tendencies lead to perfectionism and hinder you from starting. Confidence is owning your flaws, celebrating small wins, turning comparison into motivation, and giving yourself grace when you fail. External validation wasn't sustainable to begin with.

4. Authentic is strong: You have to stand out to be a successful content creator or a successful model and actor in competitive markets like LA. You can't stand out if you're a carbon copy of everyone else trying to fit in. Dare to be different.

5. Happiness is on the Other Side of Fear of Failure: Facing your fears is like finding the keys to doors that lead you into rooms you never thought existed. Reframe your relationship to discomfort and your whole life will change.

Chapter
04:24 Feeling Lost, Hopeless & Healing
05:07 How To Reinvent Yourself & Choose Your Own Path
08:00 The Problem With Imposter Syndrome & Needing Validation
11:15 Navigating the Challenges of Moving to LA & Starting Over
13:06 People Pleasing Vs. Feeling Confident About Standing Out
15:02 Don't Let Them Put You in A Box: We're Multifaceted Humans!
18:59 Stop Wanting to Be Perfect & Being Somebody Else
21:54 The Key To Success: Finding Comfort in Uncomfortable Situations
23:43 Embracing Imperfection & Self-Acceptance
26:11 Manifesting Good Energy vs. Toxic Positivity
28:00 Trusting Your Intuition
34:21 Your Vulnerability With Friends Mirrors The Relationship to Yourself
34:25 Self-Discovery: Knowing Yourself Gives You Confidence To Stand Out
36:33 Discovering Who You Really Are One Experiment at a Time
39:15 Why Chasing Your Dreams is The Best Move
46:23 Rapid Fire Questions: Do You Tip If It's TO GO?

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