Mastering the Art of Letting Go: How to Move On When You're Not Ready- Dating Advice.

Learning to master the Art of letting go means moving on even when you’re not ready. Your head knows it's time to move on, but your heart is still struggling to let go. We know the right move to make but hesitate… because there’s still that little glimmer of hope. And that’s what we need to address in order to move on and stay moving forward.

No one said letting go was easy, but here’s how to enable (and assist) Life in moving you forward to find the right partner.

Naomi writes, “Hi Susan! ♡ I am really heartbroken, and your videos have always helped me a lot! The guy I am in love with (22) has some drug problems (weed) and he said he could only concentrate on me/us fully, when he had resolved those issues. I am 26 and feel like he is really special to me. I know I have to let him go. But how can you let someone go when you feel like you're not ready to let them go?”

Holding on to a relationship that's not right for you only holds you back from finding your true match. Here’s where we need to keep our mind and attention ‘future forward’ after a breakup.

Breaking free from this cycle of holding on starts with accepting ‘what is.’ The issue at hand is insurmountable. In this case, it’s the drug addiction of my YouTube subscriber’s partner. In your case it could be chronic infidelity, abusive behavior, narcissism, or any number of behavioral issues. In cases such as these, the issue at hand is insurmountable because it lies within the other person’s determination to correct. Not yours. And if they don’t correct their behavior, ”It’s not me. It's YOU!”
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00:00 Introduction
00:48 Subscriber Question
01:36 Things Change
02:27 Their Issue
03:37 Your Options
05:00 When It Won't Work
05:40 Space
06:45 Letting Go