We like to think that everyone is interested in all aspects of our personal lives, but unfortunately this is rarely the case. There are conversations you should only have in certain settings, and others you shouldn't have at all. Learn to make that distinction to make sure you don't become an oversharer. Positive thinking is very important in this process. In closing, don't be discouraged if you've been doing any of the things above. Just start thinking about how you are going to be better from now on.