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** *In this video, I share the tips, techniques and insights that have worked for me in my own journey of healing after narcissistic abuse along with expert tips and tools I've learned through years of coaching narcissistic abuse survivors. I am not a therapist and this video is not meant to provide therapy of any form. #narcissist #covertnarcissist

0:00 Introduction - What secrets do narcissists not want you to know?
0:29 Secret #1 - Why seeking revenge on a narcissist can backfire
1:13 Insight from the comments on revenge
1:49 Secret #2 - What the narcissist's mask hides
2:27 Evidence of the narcissist's insecurity
3:15 The narcissist's shame and projection
4:23 Narcissists and toxic shame
5:07 Insight on the narcissist's shame reaction
5:47 Secret #3 - What the narcissist hopes you don't notice
6:36 Look at the narcissist's actions, not words
7:01 Secret #4 - The narcissist's surprising need
8:09 Why you're exhausted around a narcissist
8:57 Secret #5 - How the narcissist gets supply
10:12 Avoid emotional reactions
11:05 Advice on not feeding the narcissist
11:22 Secret #6 - What the narcissist knows
12:54 Smear campaigns when you figure them out
13:45 Consequences of exposing a narcissist
14:19 Secret #7 - What love means to a narcissist
15:26 Replacing the word "love"
15:47 Evidence it's not love
16:21 Secret #8 - Are you special to a narcissist?
17:04 When the narcissist calls you special
17:48 Early emotional abuse
18:51 Secret #9 - How easy it is to hurt a narcissist
20:21 Insight on triggering the narcissist
20:39 Protect your peace