Secret of Narcissist's Romantic Attraction: How YOU Self-destruct
Prof. Sam Vaknin Prof. Sam Vaknin
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 Published On Jan 2, 2024

Narcissist’s cold empathy and entraining.
Escape from reality into a shared fantasy
Second childhood (dual mothership)
Self-infatuation with an idealized version of you, seen through the narcissist’s gaze
Modeling and typing in formative years and adolescence: abuse as comfort zone, attraction to abusers
Bad object validation
External regulation: anxiolytic surrender of control
Self-punitive relationship: self-harming, self-trashing, self-defeat, and self-destruction by narcissist
Projective identification

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