Have you ever wondered about having kids? It’s something I think about a lot, and it’s something me and my husband talk about every single day.

There are so many voices out there telling us we should have children, and not many voices telling us otherwise. So I wanted to make a video for those of us who wants to make a carefully considered choice about whether to have kids or not. This is a video for anyone who’s ever thought about having kids, or not having kids. This is also to those who are childfree by choice.

There are so many aspects to parenthood, and for women, there is also the question about pregnancy and giving birth. I discuss it all in this video and I would love to hear what your reasons are for not having children!

With this constructive conversation I hope we can change the narrative from “Why don’t you have kids?” to “Why do you want ot have kids?” And make informed and responsible decisions about our lives, and the next generation.


00:00 Intro
00:26 1. You can’t afford it
02:38 2. Your partner isn’t right
03:48 Breaking up
04:40 3. You’re not prepared enough
06:25 4. Your life is full
07:30 Sacrifices
07:52 5. Not wanting to experience pregnancy and birth
09:00 Natural childbirth
11:00 Painfree birth
11:54 6. Mental health
14:28 7. You don’t know what you’re missing
15:00 Women without children
16:19 8. The world
17:00 Putting pressure on children
17:57 9. You don’t want to make the decision
20:10 Community
20:39 My thoughts on having children
22:13 One last piece of advice
22:38 Outro



Swedish Documentary
https://www.svtplay.se/video/36438366...

Sources
Willén, H. (1994) How do couples decide about having their first child - an explorative study Number 1 volume 24. Göteborg psychological reports, 24, No. 1. University of Göteborg, Department of psychology.
On What Matters - Derik Parfit
Maternal Care https://www.commonwealthfund.org/publ...
Cost of living https://www.weforum.org/agenda/2022/05/

For privacy reasons
- All baby pictures are baby me
- All stock videos of kids are cropped / no faces included


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