What if who we are isn’t really who we are? Everyone knows about puberty, but not many know about the same process we go through when we’re older. What is this process? Individuation. Anthony Metten is a high school dropout who became a bank executive. That was until he stopped trying to please others and quit his job for full time education at age 44. He’s now a Professional Certified Coach, part of the International Coach Federation and has a master's degree in Counseling Psychology and Career Development. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx