How To Repair Your Relationship After Someone Cheats- Relationship Advice. How do you repair your relationship after someone cheats? Rebuilding trust (and your life together ) is a concerted effort for which both partners must be truly committed. If you've chosen to stay, then choose to move on. Here is how to rebuild after cheating.

Cheryl writes, “My husband had an affair for 7 months- we’ve reconciled and we’re in therapy. However, I can’t stop thinking of the things “they” did. I ask questions and he’s honest and it’s a knife to the heart each time, yet my curiosity keeps me asking more. I suppose it’s because I can’t believe it happened. But I would really like to get their relationship out of my head. How do I go about doing this?”

The choice as to how to handle infidelity will be different for each one of us. For some individuals, it is a hard pass. There's no vacillation. They're out.

For others, they waiver between wanting to forgive and move on, and reprimanding themselves for being foolish enough to stay. This is an internal battle that each partner fights with themselves, as well as the voices around them giving guidance.

Getting beyond betrayal and rebuilding the trust in a relationship after cheating requires work on both sides. This video discusses how to heal a relationship after cheating, rebuilding the trust after infidelity, and surviving marriage after infidelity.

The level of difficulty that's involved in this choice is often determined by other factors; breaking up with someone you're just casually dating is easier than breaking up with someone that you've been living with. And ending a marriage while accepting the collateral damage that will be down to your family is the hardest of all.

So as you listen to this video, I would just ask you not to judge the subscriber that sent in their request. One voice speaks for thousands. And if this is your choice, here are the tools that will help you.
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01:50 Moving On Mentally
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