Have you ever asked yourself, "Why are my relationships failing?" Maybe you need to know how to let go of dysfunctional relationships. If you're anything like me, you can relate to putting a lot of work into relationships, but it doesn't always pay off. Often, when I give too much work in a relationship, everything goes well until I need something in return. This happens because of overcompensation. We tend to try too hard to overcompensate in a bad relationship. What's wrong with trying? While trying is good, overdoing it isn't. In this video, I'll share how to recognize overcompensating behaviour and three ways to overcome it to maintain good relationships.

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🎞️Timestamps:
0:00 Introduction
0:53 Overcompensation in Relationships
2:34 Trying Too Hard
4:05 Trying is good
4:25 Paying Too Much
7:28 Bad Investment
12:03 Sunk Cost Fallacy
12:41 How do we recognize our own overcompensating behaviour
15:12 Making accommodations is a form of autistic masking
16:06 What can we do instead?
19:02 Book Update

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