Arguing can be frustrating ... but it doesn't have to be! Luckily, there's a better way to argue. If you're wondering how to win an argument, I invite you to change the way you think. Don't ask yourself, "How do I win?" Ask yourself, "How do WE win?"

Productive disagreement is a handy tool in your conflict resolution toolkit. Use it. No—REALLY use it, because the best arguments are where both people end up winners (or at least, the other person doesn't feel like they've totally failed at putting their socks on).

In this video, I invited argument expert Buster Benson @busterbenson7413 . He's the author of the book, "Why Are We Yelling?: The Art of Productive Disagreement" and a master at having good arguments.

Check out this video to learn more, and buy the book here: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07... or visit Buster's website here: https://busterbenson.com/

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0:00 - Intro/Sneak Preview
2:23 - Can you remember your first disagreement?
4:43 - Why arguments are NOT bad and how you can benefit from them
6:31 - Why avoiding arguments can be a huge mistake
8:32 - How to make your arguments better
10:40 - How to prepare when meeting disagreeable people
15:50 - The one question you must ask to understand people better
16:29 - What is a big misconception about arguments?
17:52 - How to truly win any argument
19:12 - What is the #1 biggest mistake people make when arguing?

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