How to Deal With Difficult and Toxic People
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 Published On May 21, 2014

In this life, there are all kinds of different people that we're going to encounter, including difficult people and more often than not, we'll have to either work with them or be cordial.

In this video, I talk about the 4 types of difficult people and how to navigate social interactions with them, respectfully so that if you're in the workplace, no one gets written up 😅 it can be exhausting, and we cannot fix our difficult people, but by using our people skills and new communication techniques we can try to understand them and create better interactions and even stop their negativity in its tracks!

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In this video:
00:00 Identify the 4 types
00:44 #1 - Downers
00:57 #2 - Better Thans
01:25 #3 - Passives
01:47 #4 - Tanks
02:27 How to neutralize them
03:32 Vanessa gives a practical example
04:05 How to deal with their toxicity
04:56 How to avoid getting caught in their drama

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Vanessa Van Edwards is Lead Investigator at Science of People — where she unlocks the formulas and patterns behind human behavior for hundreds of thousands of students in over 200 countries. She is the national bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding With People, available in 14 languages around the world. Her work has been featured on CNN, NPR, BBC, Fast Company and dozens more.

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