You'll easily get in your own way and make your friends more hurt and their problems bigger... Here is how you can be a good friend.

You need to first understand them and their problems before giving any advice. How can your solution/advice work for a problem you don't understand? If a person doesn't feel like you understand them and what they are going through, they will never believe your advice will work.

Make them feel understood before helping them.

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