There is a beautiful book to go with this tribute to my mother's dying. Called "As Mother Lay Dying", a tapestry woven of memories and insights from the bedside, it is powerful, loving and deeply moving. Available here - https://www.amazon.co.uk/As-Mother-La...
As a soul midwife, I see death often. I go in and see people and families who are dealing with end of life, and I go. But when my mother was given a few weeks to live, I moved in with her and became a part of the process of her dying in a way that I cannot have done without the help and wisdom of all those who have taught me and those caring for them, about death. It is entirely different to be on this side of the dying process, and not someone who can come in, do their stuff, and leave. This time I needed to ask for help, and to accept advice, care and help to help me do this thing with Mum.