Why Men Like Mean Girls- Relationship Advice. Do men only value a ‘mean’ girl? What is the true allure of a female who’s not nice? Learn how to discern from a guy who only values the chase, over one who values love.

Jennifer writes, “Hi Susan, Thank you for being the voice of sanity in today's dizzying world of dating. This has happened to me 3 times, so thought I'd ask if you have insights. After 1-3 months of exclusive dating (boyfriend/girlfriend), a guy will tell me "you are perfect, so sweet, I just don't feel butterflies", or "you are too nice, maybe I need someone bitchier." Why does this keep happening? :-(“

I published an article years ago posing this same question: why is it that the ‘nice’ girls get taken for granted, pushed aside, or left because guys don’t ‘feel the spark?’ Do we have to be women we hate to get the man we love?

It wasn’t until I began working with numerous male clients that I finally understood. (And BTW; this counterintuitive dynamic isn’t solely gender specific). Listen to the video to learn more about the kind of guy you think you lost... and learn the real truth of the situation.
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