Do you want your life to be better than it is now? In this video I explain the 2 reasons that your life is hard right now, and the 3 simple things you need to know in order to move on with confidence, get over your ex and live a life that is BETTER than it was before your divorce.

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Your divorce can either be the nail in your coffin, or it can be the catalyst you use to finally confront and heal your emotional wounds so they don't kneecap your relationships.

You can become the best version of yourself and take control of your future. And now you can get access to the same step by step, proven system that has already helped hundreds of men do just that, inside the Better Beyond Divorce App.

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Free Masterclass: HOW TO TAKE BACK CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE AFTER DIVORCE
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Guide: Emotional Stages of Divorce for Men & How to Heal within Each Stage
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Dating After Divorce Checklist: Are you ready to date after your divorce?
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Helpful Books for Divorced Men (affiliate links)
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► The Upward Spiral: Using Neuroscience to Reverse the Course of Depression, One Small Change at a Time https://amzn.to/3F326IS

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► The Myth Of Normal: Trauma, Illness & Healing in a Toxic Culture - Brilliant, in every way. This is an amazing resource for understanding yourself and your ex wife and finding the clarity or compassion you need to forgive. https://amzn.to/3UxdsuC

► Lost Connections: Why You're Depressed and How to Find Help - Intense and well researched. I would recommend this book when you are past the early stages of divorce and have a stable support system in place. https://amzn.to/3VNMOi7

I’m Rachael Sloan, Master NLP Practitioner, certified life coach, and the creator of Better Beyond Divorce. I've helped hundreds of men move past the shock, betrayal, grief and anger they experience both during and after a divorce, to a place of clarity, calm and confidence. I hope to help you do the same.

DISCLAIMER: I am a Master NLP Practitioner and personal growth mentor. The material in this video represents my understanding and experience and nothing more. This content is not meant to replace professional medical advice, treatment or diagnosis. Always consult your medical provider before making any changes to your treatment.

I'm Rachael. I help men get through divorce and rebuild who they are to get healthy, get happy and move on with confidence.

Why is life so hard after divorce, especially for men? What keeps you struggling to get over your ex after divorce when other men move one, claiming that, for them, life is better after divorce? What separates you from them? That’s the question I’ll answer for you in this video, so that you know exactly how to rebuild yourself as the relaxed, happy, confident, capable man you’d like to be.

Life is hard after divorce for men for two reasons. The first is emotional. A divorce brings up a lot of painful emotions, and they are all linked to being with your partner. Which means when you think of the future, and of connecting intimately with someone new, it triggers all of the pain of your divorce. You can’t even think about how to meet women after divorce, because the very idea of being with one brings up all the nastiness of your divorce.

The second reason is simply that the end of a marriage is confusing. If you don’t fully understand what went wrong in your marriage, how can you look ahead and imagine creating a new one? Instead of moving on after divorce, many men stuck second guessing the past.

In order to finally get over your ex after divorce and move on with confidence, there are three things you need. You need a system for understanding and explaining the past (including the emotions that are coming up for you), a roadmap for success in the future and an intentional visualization practice.