This is just my take on it, I know there is no one answer for everyone and we are all our own person the same exact experience can happen to two people and it can affect them in very different ways, Depending on where they were raised, if life was hard or life was easy, did they struggle growing up, see things most people shouldn't or had things done to them no one should ever have to deal with all these things have to be taken into account, because in life its usually the bad things the define us not so much the good times

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