I feel like the avoidant attachment style is often misunderstood by the broader psychology sphere. It gives a lot of empathy to those with anxious attachment and purposefully stereotypes the avoidant as selfish, manipulative, un-empathetic and flakey. In reality, both attachment styles struggle immensely and both have their own negative traits associated with them. I wanted to highlight what it’s been like for me to deal with relationships being an avoidant.
Hopefully this isn’t misunderstood for anything else than what it is. I’m just speaking about my experiences and from the heart. I don’t think I’m better than anyone and I certainly don’t think I have the answers to life. We’re all a little fucked up, so let’s stop pretending we know more than we actually do.

Thanks for watching :)